By Lindsay Tigar Aug.
Everything was so good! It was so great!
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She carefully put up with me—in her tender, patient way—until she reached her boiling point or maybe needed to nver so she could do actual work? To date? At the time, I was utterly confused did she like him too?
Would you want her to date him? Absolutely not.
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And with that question… my anxiety waned. I stopped obsessing about the time between text messages. I let him lead the conversation.
If the answer is no—I stop wasting my time. Sure, it might seem like a stretch to ask that after one date —how do I even know that person? This question ms me take a second to breathe, look at the logic behind my worries instead of the anxiety, and truly look at who this guy is as a person.
I am an extremely hot woman. why do guys keep disappearing after we have sex?
Not as the guy I want to hook up with, not as a partner, not as the dude I want to take home to meet my parents—but as a living, breathing, real, man, aside from anything connected to dating. All of my stress was because I felt like I had no control and no way to make a decision about whether something moved forward or not.
But you know what? Now, I let the guy impress me.
I let him take the reigns. I let him send the sweet texts. I let him make a move. Images: Lindsay Tigar.